From time to time MOATies bring their problems to the MOAT to get advice from others - here are some of the gems of wisdom that have been provided:
Blogchik, if you really want a comment from me, this is what I think: A relationship should be the best and most comforting thing in your life. It's the place to go when the world is kicking you around and you know there will always be comfort and succour. It should be the thing that you don't have to worry and fret and agonize about. Both you and the other person know that you have each other's back and will lead the cheering section. It should be as warm and safe as a hug. When the relationship is causing you to worry and question and evaluate and doubt, it's not working. Life is hard enough without having to work so hard at your relationship.
Posted by: Peri on February 22, 2005 11:45 AM
Blogchik, if you really want a comment from me, this is what I think: A relationship should be the best and most comforting thing in your life. It's the place to go when the world is kicking you around and you know there will always be comfort and succour. It should be the thing that you don't have to worry and fret and agonize about. Both you and the other person know that you have each other's back and will lead the cheering section. It should be as warm and safe as a hug. When the relationship is causing you to worry and question and evaluate and doubt, it's not working. Life is hard enough without having to work so hard at your relationship.
Posted by: Peri on February 22, 2005 11:45 AM
